lala @ Wednesday, August 01, 2007
i had a fight with my sis the past few days. over eyeliners. ok, i noe this sounds stupid but i hate it when ppl take my things without asking for permission and using it!! esp when its brand new. im sure she wouldn like it if i take her things.
but e other more serious problem is that she has changed completely. different attitude and behaviour towards life. i cant even communicate with her now. she's like slacking her life away and making us so worried. she doesn care abt how we feel, and she doesn wanna care because she thinks we dun care abt how she feels. how could she think this way? i dunno how to talk sense into her. everytime i try to talk to her, she either ignores me or 'go away la'. jus for one guy, her life gets so messed up. why are youngsters nowadays so fickle abt relationships? are guys too immature to handle relationships? perhaps they dun understand love at all. now my sis is feeling so much hurt and heartache and this is affecting her attitude towards every other thing. im now most worried abt her o levels this yr. she doesn seem to care abt it and i dun even noe what shes doing outside. frankly speaking, me and my mum have no control over her.
she doesn let us into her world at all. how to help? how to talk to her? how to make her understand? i heard from woei lin that she wants to go JC; she hopes to go Vj. it's good that she has such aspirations, but good results dun jus drop from the sky. you need lots of hard work and when everyone is working hard, you have to be better than others to secure a place in e top 5 JCs. i think i have failed terribly as a sister. what should i do?
i jus hope she knows what shes doing.Labels: sister woes
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